Remembering their Sacrifices on Memorial Day

 By Elaine L. Orr

I often think about how an entire generation rose and sacrificed to defend freedom and save the world from fascism. My father (Miles D. Orr) and his brothers William Tom and Harold James were among the brave, but ALL of their siblings (total of nine) played important roles, as did their spouses. 

Miles was a friendly guy, but he did not have even one close friend. He loved to go to Missouri each spring and play golf with his brother and brother-in-law (Curtis Jackson) and rarely missed high school reunion weekend in Mount Vernon, MO -- held on Memorial Day weekend, if I remember correctly. He NEVER talked about his war experiences except to say things like the Red Cross had good donuts.

Not long before he died, he wanted to talk about "the War" so he spoke to one of my brothers. My brother had to swear he would not repeat what he was told because the experiences were so awful Miles did not want the rest of his family to know what he endured. My brother repeated one thing -- Miles had sworn never to have a friend again, because he watched so many friends die awful deaths. Essentially, he wouldn't bear the pain of loss if he don't get close to anyone outside of his family. 

Not long before he died in 1994 I pulled together some of his poems so he could see them in a booklet. I later published them and his letters to his sister (Marguerite Orr Harlowe) in Portrait through Poetry. Probably 20 times a year I'm thankful she saved them, and that my cousin Barbara found them and shared them after her mom died. 

Military men and women could not talk about what they did or where they were, and correspondence was censored -- appropriately. Among their topics, besides family, were books. She would send Miles books and he would share them with fellow Army Air Corps members. They'd share opinions. Books.  

I try to remember to make Portrait Through Poetry free for Memorial Day, but forgot. So, it'll be free from May 27 to 31. It's amazing that Miles could write happy poems. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004T5   

Never Forget.

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